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A very special man.

by la_spice @ Sunday, Jun. 17, 2007 - 06:14:18

I simply couldn't let Fathers' Day pass by without paying tribute to my dad. Not only was he father to five children of his own but he was, for many years, Superintedent of Shepherd Street Mission Children's Home in Preston. During that time he was substitute 'father' to countless children. This was written in very loving memory of my dad.

Reflections of a Man

Where is that man so strong, yet gentle
Who loved to have his children near
That man so kind and loving
Yet a man his family would revere

Where is he who proud and tender
Held his grandchildren on his knee
And told them tales to make them laugh
Oh where is he

Where is he who cared for others’ children
Who taught them right for wrong
Who showed them love and understanding
Where has this man gone

Where is he who by example
Influenced the lives of many other
Who was a friend to everyone
And anyone could call him brother

Look not for him nor weep nor mourn
Remember all the happy days
The special thoughts each one holds dear
And memories of his life and ways

Ask not why he had to die
Remember him and be glad
For those who never met this man
Are the ones who should be sad

©Marian Barker

This poem was first posted on 30 March 2007 - I make no apologies for repeating it today.


 
 

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deleted user [Visitor]

2007-06-17 @ 08:31

Very touching, your father seemed to be a very good man. My father wasn't the best in the world, he wasn't the worst either, there were times I wished he'd leave, the times he was drinking, but we came through it as a family, and now today of all days I really miss him. He was very good with my dog, and I was brushing her in the shed earlier, and thought of my father then. I won't be making the telephone call today, like I have done for the past 20 years, since moving to the Isle of Lewis, although I'll still 'phone my mother to see how she is. Sorry for being so depressing, remember tomorrow is la_spice day. Cheers Gordon...

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 10:22

Thanks for your comments Gordon. It's good to air your feelings. It's about 20 years since my dad died and although I will be phoning my mum later today, I won't be able to bring myself to mention my dad. Funny things emotions aren't they - I felt for young James (Lindow) when posting my poem and I was moved to send him a motherly hug.

Right I'm off to look in my wardrobe to see if I've anything suitable for a goddess to wear on la_spice day. I have a tiara somewhere!

ps here in France everyday is named after a saint - I'll have to look and see if there's a St Gordon :))

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 11:47

OK "St Gordon's Day" so sorry I couldn't find an exact match but have got the following you could choose from.

13 February - St Gordanus
10 May - St Gordian (aka Gordianus)
17 September - also St Gordian (aka Gordianus)

The choice is yours (not sure about the name endings though - a bit of a bum deal if you ask me!)

Have you got a middle name or thought about a deal poll? :))

deleted user [Visitor]

2007-06-17 @ 14:51

I'm not sure if I want to be a saint, I've always thought of myself as more of a sinner.

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 14:54

Phew - thank goodness for that :))

juliahamesjuliahames [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 11:45

hey that's lovely - my Dad died when I was 15 so today is always sad for me. Thanks for that.

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 11:56

I'm beginning to think that Fathers Day should be banned - there are so many people out there feeling sad today. I'm just happy to remember the daft things my dad got up to.

joebanglesjoebangles [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 12:48

Nice words yet again la_spice, Where is he?, I think you probably know where he may be.

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2007-06-17 @ 13:25

I sure do :D

davidjohndavidjohn pro
2008-07-04 @ 11:33

It will be difficult to put it all on a memorial stone but it deserves to be immortalized David.

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2008-07-04 @ 12:10

Not on a memorial stone! :roll: It's for a memorial website!

davidjohndavidjohn pro
2008-07-04 @ 12:27

You can barely imagine the cost of engraving a stone with that poem and the size it would need to be . David.

la_spicela_spice [Member]
2008-07-04 @ 13:51

Exactly - so why did you assume it was for a memorial stone then? :roll:

davidjohndavidjohn pro
2008-07-04 @ 14:16

Because of some earlier remark you made about a memorial [ I think ] David.

davidjohndavidjohn pro
2008-07-04 @ 14:16

And I hadn't thought of a memorial in the virtual world.
David.

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